Smile!!! A Man Is Nude Without a Smile on His Face!!!!!!

I am what I am because this is what I choose to be. My choice to think in a particular fashion may be guided by what I have seen as a child. It is a known fact that human brain develops in its first 7 years and whatever children see or hear, becomes the foundation of their brain. So in order to understand why according to me if something is right and it is not same with the other person, we should go back and see if the circumstances of our initial years of life match to the way we live today!!!!

Just as no two fingers can be same, two people can not think in the similar direction. A human brain develops in three ways: positive, negative or in a neutral way (the chalta hai attitude).
But it won’t be right to say that a brain works either completely positively or negatively or otherwise. There are shifts in the way it functions which determine our moods while one of the traits remains dominant. A larger reason of the resultant attitude may be determined by foreign elements. Of course the sub conscious mind plays an equally important role. Had your sub conscious mind been neutral there would never be any problems and life wouldn’t be so twisted.

Now let me try to comprehend what works in the sub conscious mind. It can either be what you presently are or what you want to be. When one is satisfied with the way they are they attain happiness (its just a state of mind). But when you want to become something different than what you really are, the pursuit of happiness begins. Some derive happiness in a bottle of beer, some look at the stars, some make poems, and some read… it could be anything.

It is not wrong to desire to become a better person. Desire is the reason of existence. What is to be thought about is how you do it? Or are you happy doing it? Change is good as long as it makes you happy. The fact remains that you can not make the whole world happy. Happiness begins from you and spreads from you. If changing means fading away of your happy state of mind, then stop doing it. May be your good just the way you are.

Happiness is within us and we look for it in different people or objects. It must always be clear that you should be your own idol. Forget what you should have been. If I believe in myself for what I am, things won’t be so difficult. It’s easy to forget this to become what someone else wants me to be. The point is after all how long can I pretend to be someone different. If I don’t accept myself for what I am, no one else will. And that calls to admit you may be wrong according to somebody else.

Just keep smiling as “A man is nude without a smile on his face”. I am going to try holding on to my covers for as long as I can. :)