MARRIAGE HAS LOST ITS SIGNIFICANCE !!

Talk about marriage and its significance in the life, its important that we also discuss the intricacies of the separation as it’s a right provided to all men and woman on different grounds to separate if the marriage is not considered HAPPY.
Though it is still looked upon as a social evil, the law permits a couple to separate ways on mutual grounds.

All Indian onan have their own rights to file for divorce if not treated well. Even though we observe that woman are ill-treated in our country in rural as well as urban areas of india; very small percentage of woman initiate for separation. But more and more social activists and social agencies are creating awareness about the law and rights available to woman.

GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE
In most western nations there are 16 distinct reasons for which divorces are granted. In India, however there are only 5 main reasons are generally accepted as sufficient ground for divorce.

ADULTRY
Its “ voluntary sexual intercourse of a married man or woman with a person other than the offender’s wife or husband”

DESERTION
The three main components of desertion are the “ disruption of cohabitation , absence of just or reasonable cause and this combination throughout 3 years” before abandoned spouse may petition for divorce. There muct be an obvious intent on the part of the spouse to remain permanently apart from the other.

CRUELTY
As with adultery , “the definition of the type of behaviors that constitute cruelty varies according to the gender of the partitioner” of the divorce. This category includes both physical and mental abuse and neglet.

IMPOTENCY
This refers to the physical inability of the couple to consummate the marriage or refusal by one spouse to do so. If there is a long period when the couple do not have sexual- intercourse and there is no just reason / the couple do not actively perform the duties of a valid marriage , it is taken as a sufficient ground for divorce.

CRONIC DISEASE
Not all religions recognize this as a valid ground for divorce . Christians do not allow divorce for a sexually transmitted disease


My question is - do you fit in any of the parameters above? if yes then free yourself from meaningless relationships with become only and only a source of pain and nothing else.... as ITS YOUR PAST THAT SHAPES YOU TOMORROW !! AND HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF!!

BAPUJI(FATHER OF OUT NATION) STOOD FOR HUMAN RIGHTS & BASIC RESPECT and STRESSED ON FREEDOM !!
ARTICLE 21 OF OUR CONSTITUTION , SAYS – "RIGHT TO LIFE AND PERSONAL LIBERTY"!!

Then I see no reason why women should not do things according to their comfort and which law says that after a woman marries she should convert herself into a ‘NAUKRAANI‘ and this is the only parameter on which a wife / daughter-in-law should be judged????

I suggest – there are so many poor girls around who are tortured and raped…. Every educated man should marry his maid’s daughter and promise to keep her happy!! This will help solve the problem of poverty which is the only cause of distress to our nation!!