I would like to again write something about Marriage.
The last time I talked about it was on 21st may 2009 and today it is 4th July 2010.
On 21st of May 2009 I admitted to myself that I had nothing like patience or tolerance or whatever is required to make a marriage work.
Frankly my marriage is now working. It’s been 6 months and I still haven’t been able to understand how to handle my angers or my In-Laws or my husband. I have noticed that no matter what I do my husband always finds something or the other to talk about against me. On repeated asking I discover that actually its my In-Law who thinks that there is a problem.
Then why does my husband talk about it and start hating me? I don’t understand!! I often ask him to talk On my behalf and he seldom does. Is that right? He Is an educated guy and thinks it’s not necessary to really talk on behalf of his wife.
A man marries a girl in front of her entire family and society promising to take care of her. Then what happens when he has to take her part in front of his own family? Just letting them know that he s happy with this girl the way she is; is an impossible thing to do for our INDIAN MAN!!
In most cases the girl is asked to defend herself.. which in my experience is a fatal move. Don’t ask me why!!
I sit with my eyes closed and think like a third person as to what’s happening….Where am I going wrong? Because if I am right there is no question of things going wrong!
when I look at things from a 3rd person's eye, I end up laughing!!
At the same time, feeling sorry that, small things that have no meaning and reason make me get angry with my husband..I also feel low that how can a well educated adult entertain mindless talks about his own legitimate wife??
It also makes me strongly believe that small things can really drive a marriage towards a Divorce.
I am born in 1984.How can an adult be told to behave in a certain fixed, standard fashion? It is an excepted fact that every human being is different and has a different way of life.
Most people don’t know what they want or what they like to do. Do you know what you really like to do or what makes you happy?
I do! I know how to laugh at least once a day.
Marriage is no joke nor is it a blessing. I regard those who are not married as very intelligent human beings. They are blessed with all the time and freedom and also the ability to make other married people fall apart.
Marriage is a gamble in which you put your entire life at stake. And what are the factors that decide whether you win or lose?- Family , friends, relatives , money , ego , respect , communication.
I am wrong to say that its because of all the above factors that a man marries. A man marries for parents, for friends , for relatives , for his own ego , and for his respect in the society.
How many men marry just because he fell in love with the girl and wants to bestow their love on her? I fail to think of one man who really marries for love and affection.
Even your Son-in-law/Brother-in-law will marry your daughter/sister for the sake of his respect,ego,family & society and will soon come back to tell you – "she is not meeting up to my expectations."
I am convinced that every teen age girl/boy should fall in love with any tom, dick or harry to at least have a taste of what we girls call our fantasy world. Because my friend, if you think when you get married it’s going to be wonderful, you’re mistaken. Ask any married man or woman if they are happy!!
Especially in India. Values and culture ke naam pe people put an end to everything the girl really wants to do with her own husband and then say –“that’s how we are and that’s what my son has seen in our family”.
WAHA RE INDIANS!!
Many of you may say that I should open a marriage counseling center. I say-“ no I wont. I don’t want anybody to get married. Have a live-in-relationship and concentrate on your work.” That’s what todays generation is doing and now I don’t see many reason against it.
Why should a girl not love a guy just because its not the right time to marry??
Go ahead as when the time is not right, the guy will tell you that he loves you everyday; and when the time comes – he ll run out of words.
In todays world there is nothing that lasts. Marriage is no exception. Marriage is a curse that makes you cry buckets.
Even educated adults have not been able to master the art. I see no difference between an educated man and an un-educated man when it comes to marriage. They all have the same low style of thinking in the name of tradition and culture.
Does Indian culture teach us that a man have all the right to crush his girl’s dreams from the day she holds his hand??
WOW !! HANDS OFF TO OUR GREAT INDIAN CULTURE AND TRADITION AND TO ALL THE INDIAN MEN!!
HATE AND SORROW IS WHAT A MARRIAGE SOW IN THE NAME OF “EXPECTATIONS”!
BEHIND EVERY BROKEN RELATIONSHIP THERE IS 1 WORD CALLED "THE GREAT EXPECTATION".
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Thursday, July 23, 2009
The Television Sell Dreams That Seldom Come True..
I always used to think that these great actors are completely depended on the public for their future.. They are not the types who work every minute for themselves.. Has anyone thought that if we don’t go buy movie tickets of some movie that’s newly released, the actors involved may end up loosing two years of their lives for I would say nothing but criticism?????
But then realisation has crept into me that these actors don’t only sell themselves on the screen but also sell dreams!! How slowly and smartly they touch our lives.. (but this applies to only people who are emotional fools) …. The concepts like that of Valentines Day, gifts, cards , love , relationship crap, etc has come into our lives from nowhere except the television..
Sometimes I start to think was my folks wrong to let me watch the television and never told me about the heard facts of life.. things like- the beautiful actress on the screen is probably there because she s thrown herself for the pleasures of the producers behind the camera!!
How the hearts ache when one grows up to find out that not the real love stories are the same as on the TV…. In fact they actually never exist.
I don’t know if I should tell kids from the very first time they are exposed to television–
look son, life s not anything like that. When u get married u have to think about whats next. There s nothing like love in those kinda relationships. It all gets over within a few weeks time and you ll start feeling like you ve beed married for about 50 years.!!!!!!
I think television channels should be on a individual charge basis.. that’s when parents will get conscious about what the child should see and learn and believe in. Probably then young girls will stop believing in the statements like “GOD S STILL BUSY MAKING THE MOST ROMANTIC LOVE STORY FOR ME!!”. They ll then know its just like waiting for Santa to come on the Christmas Eve carrying a bag full of happiness in the form of gifts!!!!!!!!!!!
CONDITIONS APPLIED!!!! LOL
Such ideas are sold by the television which has made our world look so small!!
But then realisation has crept into me that these actors don’t only sell themselves on the screen but also sell dreams!! How slowly and smartly they touch our lives.. (but this applies to only people who are emotional fools) …. The concepts like that of Valentines Day, gifts, cards , love , relationship crap, etc has come into our lives from nowhere except the television..
Sometimes I start to think was my folks wrong to let me watch the television and never told me about the heard facts of life.. things like- the beautiful actress on the screen is probably there because she s thrown herself for the pleasures of the producers behind the camera!!
How the hearts ache when one grows up to find out that not the real love stories are the same as on the TV…. In fact they actually never exist.
I don’t know if I should tell kids from the very first time they are exposed to television–
look son, life s not anything like that. When u get married u have to think about whats next. There s nothing like love in those kinda relationships. It all gets over within a few weeks time and you ll start feeling like you ve beed married for about 50 years.!!!!!!
I think television channels should be on a individual charge basis.. that’s when parents will get conscious about what the child should see and learn and believe in. Probably then young girls will stop believing in the statements like “GOD S STILL BUSY MAKING THE MOST ROMANTIC LOVE STORY FOR ME!!”. They ll then know its just like waiting for Santa to come on the Christmas Eve carrying a bag full of happiness in the form of gifts!!!!!!!!!!!
CONDITIONS APPLIED!!!! LOL
Such ideas are sold by the television which has made our world look so small!!
Sunday, July 19, 2009
TEARS !!
A sign of weakness!That’s what most people think and believe. I believe in that phrase.
We often tell young boys not to cry like girls as boys are supposed to be stronger!! And at the same time one would find elders telling the grown up ladies that tolerance is something that women are blessed with which is why they are gifted with the quality of giving birth. In other words one can say that somewhere women are stronger than men (emotionally)!!
Why does a person shed tears? When something hurts a lot or when a person feels insulted or when people around them are hurt or when someone goes bankrupt etc etc.
The point is what happens before and after the tears drops? How is it emotionally connected?
My one liner when I am about to cry is “ I cant take it anymore!!” that’s what I feel or go through just before I am about to cry. And I just don’t feel it as it is , I feel it very strongly. It makes me break down like a beggar or a pitiful dependent person.
What happens before the tears are about to fall is mostly a feeling which can be said as “I feel lost”. How easy is it to make an independent person feel lost? What is independence in the first place?
The fact is that we live in a society and are always sensitive to what others feel or talk or thinks of you. No one can escape that trap. After all we are all humans. It hurts the call upon someone who does not want to talk to you, it hurts when someone passes away; it hurts when you are broke ; it hurts when u cut yourself…. The point is “it hurts”. That’s when the tears starts playing its role. How difficult is it to understand that all one runs after is happiness or satisfaction; like that in the novel – The Alchemist. Less that we know that what we look for is right there just under your nose.
We have many Hindi phrases to put all of it in few words but I am just going to move on.
My opinion about tears is weakness. But of late I have realised that tears can actually make you stronger. There are two sides to it:
First: when you have cried enough tears on something you know how badly you want it; It sometimes makes you all the more determined to achieve that something which really matters to you. After all you have cried tears on it. It should be worth that stress.
Secondly: when you have cried enough tears on something, you may stop valuing it. It stops bothering you after a while as they say “its out of your system”. Even that helps as u no longer crib or is waiting for it. You understand and relate that thing with pain.
In both the cases things stop affecting you just cause you have lost a few of the precious tears.
I am not saying that one has a option of crying every time it pains. But that the concept of taking everything into you and just waiting till you burst may not be fully correct. Its true that when u cry you cry alone…. But who decides when you should have the luxury to shed tears and let go of your pains?
We often tell young boys not to cry like girls as boys are supposed to be stronger!! And at the same time one would find elders telling the grown up ladies that tolerance is something that women are blessed with which is why they are gifted with the quality of giving birth. In other words one can say that somewhere women are stronger than men (emotionally)!!
Why does a person shed tears? When something hurts a lot or when a person feels insulted or when people around them are hurt or when someone goes bankrupt etc etc.
The point is what happens before and after the tears drops? How is it emotionally connected?
My one liner when I am about to cry is “ I cant take it anymore!!” that’s what I feel or go through just before I am about to cry. And I just don’t feel it as it is , I feel it very strongly. It makes me break down like a beggar or a pitiful dependent person.
What happens before the tears are about to fall is mostly a feeling which can be said as “I feel lost”. How easy is it to make an independent person feel lost? What is independence in the first place?
The fact is that we live in a society and are always sensitive to what others feel or talk or thinks of you. No one can escape that trap. After all we are all humans. It hurts the call upon someone who does not want to talk to you, it hurts when someone passes away; it hurts when you are broke ; it hurts when u cut yourself…. The point is “it hurts”. That’s when the tears starts playing its role. How difficult is it to understand that all one runs after is happiness or satisfaction; like that in the novel – The Alchemist. Less that we know that what we look for is right there just under your nose.
We have many Hindi phrases to put all of it in few words but I am just going to move on.
My opinion about tears is weakness. But of late I have realised that tears can actually make you stronger. There are two sides to it:
First: when you have cried enough tears on something you know how badly you want it; It sometimes makes you all the more determined to achieve that something which really matters to you. After all you have cried tears on it. It should be worth that stress.
Secondly: when you have cried enough tears on something, you may stop valuing it. It stops bothering you after a while as they say “its out of your system”. Even that helps as u no longer crib or is waiting for it. You understand and relate that thing with pain.
In both the cases things stop affecting you just cause you have lost a few of the precious tears.
I am not saying that one has a option of crying every time it pains. But that the concept of taking everything into you and just waiting till you burst may not be fully correct. Its true that when u cry you cry alone…. But who decides when you should have the luxury to shed tears and let go of your pains?
Saturday, June 13, 2009
The Defence of Compulsion And Necessity..
The law provides with general exceptions under S76 to 106 of the IPC. These sections identify situations where the criminal liability is relieved. Since the proof of any of these defences exempts the accused from criminal liability altogether, these are also known as complete or total defences. Most of these sections are quite exhaustive in nature. There are about 36 sections but here u would like to talk about just 1 and that is S81 of the Indian Penal Code, 1860.
Section 81 provides for the defence of Compulsion and Necessity.
There are many circumstances in which a person is put to the threat of 2 evils or dangerous situations and it is inevitable for him to face one of the two. In such a situation he is left with no other alternative except to choose the lesser danger rather than the greater. Here the law justifies his actions and protects him by exempting from criminal liability as a consequence of such action.
Such protection or exemption from criminal liability is explained under the “Doctrine of Necessity and Compulsion or Jus Necessitatis.”. It is enshrined in the maxim “Necessitas non habet legem”, which means “Necessity knows no laws”.
Act likely to cause harm, but done without criminal intent, and to prevent other harm (S81): “Nothing is an offence merely by reason of its being done with the knowledge that it is likely to cause harm, it if be done without any criminal intention to cause harm, and in good faith for the purpose pf preventing or avoiding other harm to person or property”.
There is a well known case in which the defence of this section was taken. Three seamen namely Dudley, Stephens, Brooks and a cabin boy of 18 yrs were the crew of an English Vessel. While prosecuting voyage on highseas, due to a ship-wreck the three seamen and the boy escaped and landed into an open boat. They had no food and water for several days. On the 20th day, Dudley and Stephens killed the boy and fed on the flesh and blood to survive. Later they were picked by a passing vessel and after reaching the shore they were prosecuted and tried for the murder of the small boy. The accused pleaded the defence of “necessity” to get exemption from criminal liability.
The Privy Council held the accused guilty of murder and convicted on the grounds-
1) self preservation is not an absolute necessity ;
2) no man has the right to take another’s life to preserve his own;
3) there is no necessity that justice homicide.
Thus the person claiming the defence of S81 must prove that he did not possess any criminal intention to cause harm and that his purpose in good faith was to prevent or avoid other harm to person or property.
Section 81 provides for the defence of Compulsion and Necessity.
There are many circumstances in which a person is put to the threat of 2 evils or dangerous situations and it is inevitable for him to face one of the two. In such a situation he is left with no other alternative except to choose the lesser danger rather than the greater. Here the law justifies his actions and protects him by exempting from criminal liability as a consequence of such action.
Such protection or exemption from criminal liability is explained under the “Doctrine of Necessity and Compulsion or Jus Necessitatis.”. It is enshrined in the maxim “Necessitas non habet legem”, which means “Necessity knows no laws”.
Act likely to cause harm, but done without criminal intent, and to prevent other harm (S81): “Nothing is an offence merely by reason of its being done with the knowledge that it is likely to cause harm, it if be done without any criminal intention to cause harm, and in good faith for the purpose pf preventing or avoiding other harm to person or property”.
There is a well known case in which the defence of this section was taken. Three seamen namely Dudley, Stephens, Brooks and a cabin boy of 18 yrs were the crew of an English Vessel. While prosecuting voyage on highseas, due to a ship-wreck the three seamen and the boy escaped and landed into an open boat. They had no food and water for several days. On the 20th day, Dudley and Stephens killed the boy and fed on the flesh and blood to survive. Later they were picked by a passing vessel and after reaching the shore they were prosecuted and tried for the murder of the small boy. The accused pleaded the defence of “necessity” to get exemption from criminal liability.
The Privy Council held the accused guilty of murder and convicted on the grounds-
1) self preservation is not an absolute necessity ;
2) no man has the right to take another’s life to preserve his own;
3) there is no necessity that justice homicide.
Thus the person claiming the defence of S81 must prove that he did not possess any criminal intention to cause harm and that his purpose in good faith was to prevent or avoid other harm to person or property.
Thursday, June 11, 2009
APPEAL
The word appeal means right of carrying a particular case from an inferior to a superior Court with a view to ascertain whether the judgement is sustainable. An appeal is created of statute only and a right of appeal exists where expressly given.
No appeal lies from any judgement or order of a Criminal Court except as provided for by this Code or by any other law for the time being in force. There can be no inherent right of appeal from any judgement unless an appeal is expressly provided for the law itself. The right of appeal is governed by the statute in conformity with which a particular offence is tried. The right of appeal is neither a fundamental nor an inherent right; it is a creature of a statute, a statutory right.
The Criminal Procedure Code does not provide for an appeal to the Supreme Court but its stated under another law – the Constitution. According to the Constitution of India, an appeal shall lie to the Supreme Court from any judgement, final order or sentence in a criminal proceeding of a High Court in India if the High Court-
a) has on appeal reversed an order of acquittal of an a accused person and sentenced him to death, or any Court subordinate to its authority has in such a trial convicted the accused person and sentenced him to death;
b) certified that the case is a fit one for appeal to the Supreme Court.
The Highest Appellate or Revisional Court under the old Criminal Procedure Code was the High Court. The law has undergone a significant change in the present Code which provides for appeals to the Supreme Court.
No appeal lies from any judgement or order of a Criminal Court except as provided for by this Code or by any other law for the time being in force. There can be no inherent right of appeal from any judgement unless an appeal is expressly provided for the law itself. The right of appeal is governed by the statute in conformity with which a particular offence is tried. The right of appeal is neither a fundamental nor an inherent right; it is a creature of a statute, a statutory right.
The Criminal Procedure Code does not provide for an appeal to the Supreme Court but its stated under another law – the Constitution. According to the Constitution of India, an appeal shall lie to the Supreme Court from any judgement, final order or sentence in a criminal proceeding of a High Court in India if the High Court-
a) has on appeal reversed an order of acquittal of an a accused person and sentenced him to death, or any Court subordinate to its authority has in such a trial convicted the accused person and sentenced him to death;
b) certified that the case is a fit one for appeal to the Supreme Court.
The Highest Appellate or Revisional Court under the old Criminal Procedure Code was the High Court. The law has undergone a significant change in the present Code which provides for appeals to the Supreme Court.
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
A TEACHER , A DOCTOR AND A LAWYER !!!!!!
A teacher, a doctor and a lawyer, these are the three professionals who work to serve the society. Their professions are mainly concerned with the wellbeing of the public at large. They take an oath to serve the people in every way possible.
A teacher educates children with a view that the kids grow up into good individuals and have a good future. They are taught in such a fashion in which the basic human values are implanted in their character. All of which leads to a better tomorrow.
A doctor takes care of the sick people. His only job is to ensure that each and every person he treats should be cured and become a healthy person. Hence help his patients to maintain good health.
A lawyer works heard to get justice for his clients. In the process prevents offenders to disturb the public tranquillity.
What is worth noticing is that each one of us has the qualities of all the above three within ourselves to a certain extent.
We teach ourselves everyday, we take precautionary measures in our daily routine so that we stay healthy and when needed we fight for our rights.
Every individual tries to take lessons for his or others experience. That’s self learning. It’s a fact that a man never stops growing. And in daily life, we are our own teacher.
People take measures to stay healthy. Not always I find people running to the doctors for every small thing. The first few things that almost every person does for any health problems are trying on some of the conventional methods. In other words, many at times we are our own doctor.
And in most circumstances we are our own lawyer. A man has to defend his thoughts when he thinks he is right. In most circumstances people who you live with or work with do not agree with what you think may be right. What do you do? You attempt to explain why things should be your way. But this does not mean that if you never have your way you are a bad lawyer. You are just an individuals and sometimes questing “why is the leaf green”, isn’t the best question to ask. I would term such an individual is an adjusting kind of a person. One has to change as change is constant and it is the only food for survival. Why do you think dinosaurs are extinct?
Nor does it mean that if you have your way with everybody you’re a great lawyer of yourself. In such circumstances you could be happy but people around may not be holding any good opinions about you.
What is needed is a balanced approach with everything. One can be traditional yet liberal; like you can be a mother even though you are a man!!! :)
A teacher educates children with a view that the kids grow up into good individuals and have a good future. They are taught in such a fashion in which the basic human values are implanted in their character. All of which leads to a better tomorrow.
A doctor takes care of the sick people. His only job is to ensure that each and every person he treats should be cured and become a healthy person. Hence help his patients to maintain good health.
A lawyer works heard to get justice for his clients. In the process prevents offenders to disturb the public tranquillity.
What is worth noticing is that each one of us has the qualities of all the above three within ourselves to a certain extent.
We teach ourselves everyday, we take precautionary measures in our daily routine so that we stay healthy and when needed we fight for our rights.
Every individual tries to take lessons for his or others experience. That’s self learning. It’s a fact that a man never stops growing. And in daily life, we are our own teacher.
People take measures to stay healthy. Not always I find people running to the doctors for every small thing. The first few things that almost every person does for any health problems are trying on some of the conventional methods. In other words, many at times we are our own doctor.
And in most circumstances we are our own lawyer. A man has to defend his thoughts when he thinks he is right. In most circumstances people who you live with or work with do not agree with what you think may be right. What do you do? You attempt to explain why things should be your way. But this does not mean that if you never have your way you are a bad lawyer. You are just an individuals and sometimes questing “why is the leaf green”, isn’t the best question to ask. I would term such an individual is an adjusting kind of a person. One has to change as change is constant and it is the only food for survival. Why do you think dinosaurs are extinct?
Nor does it mean that if you have your way with everybody you’re a great lawyer of yourself. In such circumstances you could be happy but people around may not be holding any good opinions about you.
What is needed is a balanced approach with everything. One can be traditional yet liberal; like you can be a mother even though you are a man!!! :)
Monday, June 1, 2009
A SWEET STORY< SWEETER THAN SALT!!!!!!!
A sweet story, much sweeter than salt.He met her on a party, she was so outstanding, many guys chasing afterher, while he was so normal, nobody paidattention to him.At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him. Shewas surprised, but as he was polite, she promised.They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, Shefelt uncomfortable, she thought, " please, let me back home".Suddenly he asked the waiter: would you please give me some salt?I'd like to put it in my coffee.Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, heput the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously: why you have this hobby? He replied: when I was a little boy,I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, salty and bite, just like the taste ofthe salty coffee. Now every time I have thesalty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, Imiss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who arestill living there. While saying that, tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart.A man who can tell out his homesick, he must be a man who loves home,cares about home, has responsibility of home.Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, herchildhood, her family. That was a really nice talk,also a beautiful beginning of their story.They continued to date. She found actually he was a man who meets allher demands: he had tolerance, was kind hearted,warm, careful...he was such a good person but she almost missed him!Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like everybeautiful love story: the princess married to theprince, then they were living the happy life...And, every time she madecoffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee,as she knew that's the way he liked it.After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said:" Mydearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie.This was the only lie I said to you----the salty coffee.
Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time,actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It washard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that couldbe the start of our communication! I tried to tell you thetruth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I havepromised not to lie to you for anything. Now I'mdying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like thesalty coffee, what a strange bad taste. but I have the salty coffee for my whole life since I knew you, I neverfeel sorry for anything I do for you. Havingyou with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can livefor the second time, I still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again."Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It'ssweet. She replied. SOMETIMES YOU FEEL YOU KNOW THE PERSON MORE THAN ANYBODY ELSE...BUTONLY TO REALISE THAT YOUR OPINION ABOUT THE PERSON WAS NOT AS YOU DESCRIBED.JUST LIKE THE INCIDENT OF THE SALTY COFFEE...LOVE MORE AND HATE LESSER... CAUSE' SOMETIMES SALTTASTES MORE THAN SUGAR.
Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time,actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It washard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that couldbe the start of our communication! I tried to tell you thetruth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I havepromised not to lie to you for anything. Now I'mdying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like thesalty coffee, what a strange bad taste. but I have the salty coffee for my whole life since I knew you, I neverfeel sorry for anything I do for you. Havingyou with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can livefor the second time, I still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again."Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It'ssweet. She replied. SOMETIMES YOU FEEL YOU KNOW THE PERSON MORE THAN ANYBODY ELSE...BUTONLY TO REALISE THAT YOUR OPINION ABOUT THE PERSON WAS NOT AS YOU DESCRIBED.JUST LIKE THE INCIDENT OF THE SALTY COFFEE...LOVE MORE AND HATE LESSER... CAUSE' SOMETIMES SALTTASTES MORE THAN SUGAR.
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